Friday, March 30, 2012
Sea-time
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
More about Spanky, my Colorful Caribbean Cat.
The animal shelter on the east end of
I enquired about him with the young West Indian woman who was looking after the Cat House that day. She told me thought he'd be a good match for me. She happened to know that the cat's previous owner was also a man – a young man who lived with his mother. He'd been arrested and was in jail for a drug offence, and Mother didn't want the cat. I paid the adoption fee and was told I could pick him up after he'd be taken to a vet for shots and neutering, which would take a couple of days I returned to the cage where he was being kept to let him know I'd be back for him.
After a couple days of settling in, it became apparent that this was an active and playful cat. Also obvious was that he was unaccustomed to being an indoor cat. He was always trying to get out, either through the front door of the apartment as I went in or out, or through the sliding screen door to my balcony overlooking the Lagoon. But my front door was just a few steps from the road, a busy road to Red Hook. I wasn't going to take chances with him roaming around.
After about a month together I had some reason, which I don't now recall, to take Spanky to the vet. In the examination room the vet looked at him briefly, turned to me and said, this cat had serious health problems. He suspected there were a couple different infections. If he was right, the prognosis was not good. Did I really want to keep this cat? I was shocked to hear this. I'd just adopted him. He'd been taken to a vet for shots and neutering before I brought him home. I assumed his health was fine. He'd been in my home long enough that I felt we'd bonded. I wasn't going to simply give up on him now.
I told the vet this. He recommended blood tests to see the extent of the problem. Then began a period when I'd take Spanky to the vet once every week for an injection of a cocktail of drugs to combat his infections. I recall many days when it was clear that Spanky was not feeling well. I hated to see him that way. I felt so helpless. At other times he was his usual high energy-self. In time his health stabilized and his injections were reduced to once a month. Eventually he was declared fit, except for the one infection for which there was no cure – FIV, the feline version of HIV. He was otherwise healthy, but his immune system was compromised.
As time went on Spanky and I developed a routines. This was in the time of working for Trawlers in
I had a friend from
I recently had the photo scanned into a digital file. You'll see I was working on long hair back then. Later, I briefly had a pony, which I got rid of on a business trip to
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Spanky, the Colorful Caribbean Cat. Part 1
The story of Spanky begins with Hurricane Marilyn in September, 1995. It was a savage storm that heaped devastation on the
Even now, sitting here in
The forecasts for Marilyn suckered us. Two weeks earlier we'd had a very close call with Hurricane Luis, which was a huge storm that traumatized
My pal Gary also had a houseboat. It was on the dock below the little four-unit cider block apartment building where I lived. I had one of the studio apartments overlooking the Lagoon. Gary and his girlfriend at the time, Dana, stayed with me for the storm. We spent the night huddled together in my bathroom. None of us slept. The storm sucked my double front windows, frame and all, right out of the building. And these weren't even real windows. Just screened and louvered window openings. Horizontal rain soaked everything in my little apartment. But that was noting compared to losses others sustained.
In the morning we walked out to a new world. Everything had changed.
(How Gary and I wound up in the company of a Red Cross supervisor is story of epic heartbreak that my mind tends to avoid.)
The following days and weeks are a blur of long hours at work, in hurricane season heat, restoring our world as best we could. But again, Gary and I had it easy compared with many. The island's electrical grid was destroyed. It would take six weeks for power to reach us. We moved onto one of the damaged trawlers and lived like kings using the trawler's generator for air conditioning, a functioning galley, TV and
Many people simply left the island as soon as they could get on a flight. For the first week or so only military aircraft were using the airport, bringing in FEMA, Red Cross, and other disaster relief. That was our only link. Relief was slow. Unlike
So Bear came to live with me. At first it was a cool relationship. Bear kept his distance. Living in the back of the shop had made it hard for Bear to keep clean. Now in my apartment, eating regularly, I began to note changes. Bear's coat became cleaner, shinier. And Bear became friendlier. I would come home from the marina at the end of the day, sit on my futon, and Bear would come to me, get on my lap and purr loudly. If I lay down he would lie on my chest purring. His paws would stretch and contract, like he was kneading bread. It was very endearing. Soon I found that I looked forward to going home, feeding Bear, and then sharing time with him purring.
One afternoon, about six weeks after Bear had moved in, I came through my door and walked in the apartment expecting Bear to come see me like always. I saw Bear laying on the little area rug next to my futon. He didn't move to greet me. I walked over, leaned down to touch him, and realized he was dead.
I was stunned. I didn't know what to do. I walked back out the door and back to the marina. I paced up and down the small parking lot. What the fuck! All that we'd been through - the hurricane, the deaths, the destruction, heartbreak, hard work, and now to lose this little piece of animal companionship. I was devastated.
It was so unexpected. So inexplicable. I'd taken him to the vet for shots and a check up. He seemed absolutely fine. Why did he die? I didn't know what to do. Eventually I returned to my apartment, rolled Bear up in the little area rug I'd found him on, took him to the marina and unlocked a dinghy. With Bear at my feet I steered out of the Lagoon and out to open water. Some distance out I stopped the engine. I sat in the drifting dinghy for a moment looking down at this mystery. He'd been in my life such a short time. He was supposed to be a survivor, like me. I let him into my life, made an emotional commitment, made a connection, but then he died. Why did you die? I picked him up, lowered him into the sea and quickly drove away.
After that it was hard going home to my apartment. I'd go to the door and be reminded of when Bear waited for me. It made me morose. I grieved for a couple weeks, and I then began to think - that cat became very important to me in such a short time. Clearly he'd awakened some quiet need of mine. Why deny myself now? There must be many cats in need of a home. I'd be doing one of them a favor. Maybe saving a life.
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
From a letter to old friends
My three days of sailing with the elderly couple (90 & 86) on a Hunter 44 DS began easy but developed into challenging conditions. Our first day on the water, the winds were at first very light, the boat barely moving. But after a couple hours the wind came up to a pleasant 10 kts out of the south and remained so for the rest of the day. We sailed easily with good speed for a couple hours, and we all enjoyed it. But I could see that they were growing weary of the boats motion, gentle as it was. They were unaccustomed to this much activity and outdoor stimulation.
We'd planned to go for dinner at a resort with a marina on the east side of
The next day the wind was really up. A front was moving in. It was blowing about 15 kts in the marina, which is sheltered by the Vinoy Hotel and trees in a nearby park. Out on the bay the wind would be stronger. The slip we were in is oriented east/west. The strong south wind made getting out tricky. We motored out of the marina basin, and I set sail with a deep reef in the main.
I could see that the Yacht Club was hosting a regatta. There were a lot of boats of various sizes racing around the Bay, and in these wind conditions it looked like exciting sailing. Our sailing was slower and controlled. I needed to keep the boat as comfortable as possible. But the wind was building – steady 20s and gusting higher, nearing 30 kts. Even reefed as I was, the boat healed to a degree that was becoming uncomfortable for my passengers. I put the main sail entirely away and sailed under jib alone. The boat heeled less now, but the wind was kicking up a chop on the Bay that made the boat pitch and roll. There was nothing I could do about that. After only a couple hours of sailing they were ready to go back in.
When we motored into the marina basin I knew that there was no way I could safely single-hand this boat into its slip. It was gusting up to 30 even here. I called on my cell to find out who from Sailing Florida's staff was around. I learned that Patrick, who I'd seen there earlier, had left on a sail with the owners of the catamaran. I called the boss, Capt Dave, and learned that young Kevin was on the way down to the marina. Kevin is only about 20, a part time student and part time employee. He's been with us for only about a year, but he has become a competent boat jockey. And he has nearly completed the requirements for getting his entry-level Coast Guard license.
The marina basin has moorings for transient boats that don't want to be on the dock at the marina. I decided to pick up a mooring and wait for help to arrive. Soon after I'd secured our boat on a mooring, I saw another boat from our fleet, the Hunter 31, coming into the basin. I figured that like us, they'd been chased back in by the high winds on the Bay. I knew they were bareboat charterers and that even in calm conditions they'd be expecting help from Sailing Florida staff to get back into their slip. I waved them down and told them to do as I did – pick up a mooring until we had help on the dock.
It wasn't long before I saw Kevin on our docks. I called his cell. I'd seen that there were two other boats out of our fleet that had come in before me. Rather than try to get into their slips, they had gone side-to at the t-head on the end of our dock. The charterers on those boats were also waiting for help to get moved around to their slips. I said to Kevin that I was okay where I was. If he wanted, he could get those other boats moved off the t-head before helping me in. Kevin said he wanted to help me in first so that I could then help him deal with the other boats. That made sense.
I had arranged dock lines so they draped along the lifelines in a way that Kevin could grab my bow line as I entered the slip, and, as soon as I was in and stopped the boat, I could grab a stern line and jump to the dock. It was vital to get dock lines on cleats as quickly as possible. The south wind would blow the boat away from the dock and into the next slip the moment I stopped. I started the engine and dropped the mooring.
The boat needed to go into its slip stern-to. If it was docked bow-in the shore power cords wouldn't reach the receptacles. My elderly passengers were staying on the boat. They needed shore power. To get my boat into its slip I'd have to back down the fairway between docks and then turn to port into the slip. Prop walk and the strong wind made the alternative – going down the fairway bow first and then backing in – an impossible maneuver. But in these conditions, backing through this confined space with boats and concrete docks on both sides would not be easy. I'd have to back going north with a very strong south wind. I anticipated that the wind would tend to turn my bow one way or the other. To prevent that, I'd need lots of steerageway – lots of speed so the keel and rudder could prevent the bow from twisting. I set the boat up to back down the fairway. I got the boat gong fast in reverse. Nonetheless, just as I neared the mouth of the fairway a gust of wind caught my bow and turned me. My stern was now headed directly for the corner of the concrete t-head. Quickly I used lots of forward thrust to regain control and get away from the docks.
I took a breath. Looked back down the fairway I'd have to negotiate. Saw Kevin waiting at the end of the finger pier where I'd need to turn in. Set the boat up again, then reversed into the fairway even faster than before. This time I was able to maintain control in the fairway. But the turn in was a quick, delicately judged moment. I remember a moment of thinking - this must be a little something like slamming an F-18 onto the deck of an aircraft carrier. Kevin had a boathook to get my bow line in hand. With the boat still only halfway in the slip, the wind pinned the leeward rub rail at about midships against the piling that separates my slip from the neighboring one. I stopped the boat, grabbed my stern line, jumped to the dock and got a turn on a cleat. From there we were able to man-handle the boat the rest of the way in.
After my boat was secured, plugged into shore power and my passengers settled in the cabin, Kevin and I began rounding up the other boats. There were the two Catalina 350s on the t-head to move into their slips. Then the Hunter 31 that was out on the mooring. While that was still going on three other boats came in the marina basin: the Catalina 445 with the owner driving, the Catalina/Morgan 440 with one of our free-lance skippers and the Beneteau 37 with another free-lance skipper. Kevin and I wrestled all of them into their slips too.
This kind of activity is like working a rodeo. It's fast paced action using ropes to try controlling beasts that don't want to be controlled. We got everyone in. No one injured. No boats damaged. Like any adventure, after it's over, if you've prevailed, then you can laugh and say, that was fun!
Friday, March 9, 2012
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Letter to old friends
I'm teaching this week through Thursday. We've been sailing in 20 knot winds and intense sunshine. Reminds me of the
There are two versions of how Cathy and I met. One version is we met through church. The second is we met at a pub. Both are true.
A woman I was dating before I met Cathy got me started at attending an occasional service at the Unitarian Universalist Church in
Cathy's family is Italian, hence she was raised a Catholic. But she was done with Catholicism and through a friend at her office had heard about the UU church and it's community. She had been in
Cathy's family lived on
Cathy, with little encouragement or support from her parents, went on to university in
This is a highly simplified explanation of what she does. I don't understand it all. It's very complicated and very political. She sometimes tells me about meetings she's in and the difficult personalities, as well a issues she deals with. I couldn't do it. Somehow she seems to thrive.on it. She is a very good project manager. I think she could also have been a very good lawyer. Or diplomat.
So naturally the question is - why is she with me? Exactly. She is not enthusiastic about my motorcycle racing, but she is supportive. She has always been both enthusiastic and supportive about my involvement in sailing. It was she who encouraged me to get involved in an ASA facility in
Her first experience of cruising was on our honeymoon. I chartered a Freedom 30 out of Bellingham WA for a two week cruise through the San Juan Islands and up into the Gulf Islands of Canada. This was late in their season, after Labor Day. Weather was not always ideal. Her friends back at the office were taking bets on how many nights she'd be on the boat before getting off to check into a hotel. But she loved it. We had a wonderful time. We've gone on many cruises since, mostly in the
Cathy's interests outside of work are all things in nature. She's still a biologist. But she's also an enthusiast of art. Our walls are not enough for all the artwork she has, and she keeps buying more. She is also very fashion conscious. I've often heard other women in her office comment on Cathy's fashion sense, which I think must be high praise. (I'm somewhat oblivious.) She shares these interests with her brother Stephen who works in
I need to get on with my day - another sunny, windy one teaching on
Saturday, March 3, 2012
I am so fortunate.
I get paid to do what I love to do – mess around on boats. In the course of doing that I often meet and hang out with the most interesting people. Yesterday and again today I'll skipper a Hunter 44 for a couple who - as a celebration of his birthday - have come to stay on the boat and sail on
When younger they owned several boats. They've lived on a 50 foot Chris Craft for a year and a half in
I can't tell you how touching and inspiring it is to spend time with them, learning their histories and their attitude toward life. And to think – they pay me. I should be paying them.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Letters to old friends.
You asked about the sailing season here. It's long. Year round really, but it gets really hot here in summer. July and August are brutal, but it's cooler out on the water as long as there's some wind. In summer, often there isn't much. All our boats have air conditioning while they're in a slip and hooked up to shore power. The bigger ones have generators to support A/C when away from a dock.
(Our recent trip down to the
At SF we are now entering the heart of our season We had a meeting yesterday to discuss this coming week's schedule. Almost every boat will be out this weekend. It's a bit amazing when after a flurry of activity to get boats off on their cruises, you look around and suddenly the slips are nearly all empty and the docks are quiet. We expect it will be busy like this right through June. I recall last year, it didn't really slow down until after the 4th of July weekend.
This year will, I expect, be busier still. We've got more boats. Our fleet is growing remarkably. Last year we added four 2011 boats. So far this year we've added three more that are used but in excellent condition – two Catalina 35's and a Hunter 44. The owner of one C 35 has already arranged an upgrade. He signed a deal for a 2012 Jeanneau 50 to be delivered to us in June. Then yesterday I learned that the owner of the Beneteau 32 has started work on an upgrade as well. And I hear of at least two new potential boat owners that are serious about placing boats in our fleet. (Did I tell you this earlier? I may have.)
Yesterday I was diesel technician all day. The Leopard catamaran's engines were due for service routines, including the generator. The owners and some family will arrive today and go off on a cruise. I wanted to get the engines serviced prior to that trip so I spent the day huddled down in the engine bays with tools and an oil pump.
This afternoon I'll meet an older couple (in their late 80s) at the marina and help them get settled on the Hunter 44 they'll stay on through Sunday. Apparently they sailed a lot when younger - owned a sailboat and cruised the
Kim, I can appreciate your passion for gardening. Cathy's the same, but since selling the house in
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